10 Thoughts that Ran Through My Mind as I Followed the Twerk It Like Miley Trend

1. Wtf is this?!
2. Hmm… some of these guys are kinda cute. I wonder if they’re straight.
3. Nope. Definitely not.
4. Oh, who cares? They’re still cute.
5. Note to self, show this to Pao.
6. Should you really twerk like Miley? Doesn’t Riri do a better job at it?
7. Crap. I’m gonna be LSS-ing to this the entire day.
8. Okaaay! Ugly guy alert! Next video please!
9. If my husband uploads a topless vid of himself singing to this or ANY song at all, I’m filing for annulment.
10. I give up. Boy Landi, save me please!

Forever, For Now

 

There seems to be a mania sweeping the nation. Day in and day out, I see my Facebook contacts mulling over the concept of forever. The source of this conundrum remains a mystery to me. Was it brought about by a movie or by hours of sitting in the Manila traffic during rush hour? Either way, it is a concept that divides people into Team #mayforever and Team #walangforever. I myself have joined the bandwagon at one point, cracking a joke that my son believes “may forever” as he told his grandmother “Bebe hindi tayo maghihiwalay. Forever mo akong apo”. (It sounded like a threat to Mama, and she is still recovering.)

What is forever and why do we obsess over it?

A salvo of words immediately comes to mind when we are asked to provide synonyms for forever: eternal, endless, for always are just a few. But are these the really the things we pertain to when we sound off our thoughts on forever? Forever means exactly that: forever. It transcends time, death, mood swings, and diarrhea. It does not cease the minute your cellphone battery dies. Forever has existed way before you did and will continue to do so after you die – which makes the the idea of mortals going after forever a little absurd. We yearn for forever yet our existence remains finite.

Crushes, flings, friendships, even marriage, all these connections are temporary because we ourselves are temporal beings. The finite nature of relationships is what makes it more special. We plunge into a relationship and embrace the ecstasy and pain that come with it because we know it has an ending. This does not mean that we are masochists or idiots, this only means that we are human and that our mortality makes us long for that which is eternal. We must remember though, that the infinite is in the finite of every moment. We don’t have to kill ourselves in our search for “forever” because “for now” can be just as wonderful.